


I began to wonder what it was that I wanted more of, not less.Īnswers to Strayed’s tweet ranged from grace, to empathy, to time with loved ones. I’ll think of what I don’t want filling my time, rather than what I do. Reading that tweet, it hit me: While I focus so much energy on ridding myself of what doesn’t serve me, I forget to replace it with something that does. What do you want more of in your life? Not less of. It didn’t occur to me what that was until I saw author Cheryl Strayed’s tweet last week: “What do you want more of in your life? Not less of. It’s a satisfying strategy, but always leaves me feeling like something’s missing. Are there habits I want to break? Obligations to shed? Friends from whom I need to move on? When I get frustrated by my everyday life, I tend to think of what I want to cut out.
